And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ's sake hath forgiven you. - Ephesians 4:32
Kindness is love in action. If patience is how love reacts in order to minimize a negative circumstance, kindness is how love acts to maximize a positive circumstance.
Kindness creates a blessing; it is proactive. Kindness makes you likeable.
Four core ingredients to kindness are gentleness, helpfulness, willingness, and initiative.
Purpose to say nothing negative to your husband today. Also, do at least one unexpected gesture as an act of kindness.